Rest Now — Without Regrets

Death is a thief. One moment, you have someone in your life. In another moment, all you have are memories of their presence. I recently lost my Aunt Mayrene. With her passing, I also lost one of my biggest supporters. 

She taught me about grace and style. She taught me about gratitude. She showed me the beauty of loving unselfishly. I miss her so much.

Every loss feels like a punch in the gut. This time, I felt like I was hit while still trying to heal from previous losses. 

My body needed a break. Physically, mentally, and emotionally — I needed a break.

This time, I stopped. The decision to give myself permission to grieve was one of my best yet. No, I don’t have to keep it moving because death is a part of life. I can be sad. I can cry. I can seek comfort from family and friends.

I packed my bags with my favorite person, Mr. HGF, and we went to Savannah.

I watched the rain pour from the sky during the first three days of my visit. Instead of leaving to find the sun elsewhere, I stayed — and slept. I rested while the rain fell. Outside was a reflection of how I was feeling inwardly. 

As the sun came out, I realized that I could step outside to enjoy the light and warmth. Savannah is one of my favorite places to visit, and it never disappoints. It is simply beautiful. 

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Taking deep breaths of fresh air, I explored. I visited these shops along the way:

• Pelindaba Lavender, a handcrafter of lavender products
• The Spice & Tea Exchange, the place for tea, spices, and specialty gifts
• Savannah’s Candy Kitchen, a mandatory stop for your sweet tooth
• The Paris Market, a must-visit if you’re looking for unique pieces 

Of course I also visited Anthropologie, Free People, Saints & Shamrocks, and Terra Cotta Savannah.  

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I’m not sure what you’re going through, but from me to you: it’s always a good time to step away and rest.

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