You have an interview for your dream job in the morning, or you’re going on a first date Friday night. Perhaps you just moved across the country, and you’re missing your family. Before you walk into your interview, say, “hello,” to your date, or shed a few tears while unpacking in your new space, you pick up the phone to connect with your squad.
This group of women represents a collection of life experiences, personalities, endearing qualities, and even annoying ones. These women are journeying with you, and they are dependable, trustworthy, and kind. They are #squadgoals, and you wouldn’t change a thing about them.
If you’re a Haute Grey Fox, make sure you have the squad that’s cheering on the sidelines or willing to jump in the race with you. When I think of my squad, I do a ROLE call. I’m not doing the roll call you’re thinking by just calling out names. I’m calling out the attributes of my squad. Which role do they play? My squad can cheer me up when I’m down or encourage me when I think I’m unqualified.
I have friends who can give me a reality check.
Every squad needs that person to bring you back to reality. Whether you’re dwelling on something from the past or simply being ungrateful, you need a person to lovingly and honestly remind you of the important things. For me, this person has helped to remind me to keep a heart of gratitude and remember how much I have been blessed. This person has also helped to lovingly call me out when I’m in a mood that’s got to go.
I have friends who will quickly say, “On my way.”
A squad is incomplete without someone who has no problem hopping in the car, taking a train or boarding a plane to comfort their friend. “On my way” can also be equated to those friends who will step out of a meeting to respond to an emergency text or FaceTime you when you need to see a friendly face. These three words bring so much comfort, and I hope you have someone in your life that is willing to clear their schedule to be with their friend.
I have friends who make me laugh.
Y’all, laughter really is the best medicine. Who is that person that can turn your frown upside down? They have the ability to delicately navigate situations and know the right time to bring in a little humor. In my squad, this is the person that I want to join me for events, vacations, you name it. They can light up a room and bring joy wherever they land.
I have friends who provide encouragement
This person is not only a great listener — they provide specific words of encouragement that can only come from a great friendship. For me, this person knows the things that make me nervous or anxious, and they are aware of the ways to empower and encourage me. One note: Don’t forget to share words of encouragement with this person, too. They also need to hear these things!
How does your squad look?
Lovely photos and great group of friends! Is it too late to try and get a squad like yours? Lol. I usually roll solo. Having a good squad is hard to find these days, so you are definitely blessed! Awesome post!!
Hey beautiful! It’s never too late to get a great squad. I realize how blessed I am to have one, some members of my squad are not pictured… I am blessed to have a tribe of so many lovely people in my life. Sometimes it takes time to find the perfect fit, however I am certain there is the perfect tribe for everyone. OAN…. saw the image you posted from the all white party…. have to say again, you looked absolutely stunning. Blessings Sis.
It’s never too late my beautiful Insta friend. Wish we lived closer.
Nothing like Your trIbe! I love mine! Great post stephanie! Glad i stopped by.
So happy you stopped by Julie! Let me guess which squad member you are…. “The life of the party” Am I correct? Have a wonderful week lovely!
Thanks so much for stopping by Julie! Sounds like you have an amazing tribe. Much love.
Awesome post! Great Pic!! I tru had a wonderf time this past week!! Having a sqaud of lOvely ladies Who stand by your side is priceless! Looking for to many more adventures, Thank you for your friendship, fun and felloWship!
Awwwww Mercedes….so did I. So thankful for connections, fellowship, laughter (like when I got soaked at the delicious seafood restaurant, and the Manager kept saying I got you….blank stare hahahah!) connecting with amazing folks like Mitch … her insight, encouraging words and unwavering passion, just invaluable. Reconnecting with old friends like my beautiful bonus daughter Marie who has the biggest heart but tries really hard to mask it, Reconnecting with amazing women like Stacey, Shariese and rolling with our sweet Williana, definitely a great week. I am truly blessed and grateful. Thanks for being a wonderful friend.
Likewise my beautiful friend. More adventures, travel and living well.
This really is an awesome post! Its what we all need. You realley touched on all the NeCessary atributes of a great friend. Yes, your Peeps Are definItely i#squadgoals
Xoxo
Thanks for your comments Elaine. Love my squad!
Stephanie…you are the true definition of a great friend and wonderful squad member. This post is AN attribute to who you are as a person.
Awwwww thanks my beautiful friend!